When a friend or relative has cancer, or another serious, life threatening illness, you want to help. But so many thoughts and questions come to mind:

How can I help? Should I visit? I don't know what to say - or what not to say. What are they thinking? What if they don't want me to visit?

Eli Gancz worked with JCHi and put together a very helpful summary of information to address these issues.

What Are They Thinking?

What to Say

What NOT to Say

How to Help